在人生的漫長旅程中，婚姻就像是一場充滿未知與挑戰的冒險。許多夫妻在攜手走過多年后，會面臨各種各樣的問題。當兒女長大成人，有些夫妻會覺得此時是一個可以重新審視婚姻、甚至選擇結束婚姻的時候。然而，當這種念頭出現，又該如何應對呢？這其中涉及到諸多法律、情感和實際生活方面的問題，下面我們就來詳細探討一番。

一、兒女長大了該離婚了怎么辦

當決定在兒女長大后離婚時，首先要考慮的是溝通問題。夫妻雙方需要心平氣和地坐下來，坦誠地交流彼此的想法和感受。雖然兒女已經長大，但離婚對他們來說依舊是一件重大的事情，也應該找個合適的時機和方式告知兒女。要讓兒女明白，這是父母之間感情的選擇，并不影響父母對他們的愛。

從法律層面來講，離婚有兩種方式，協議離婚和訴訟離婚。如果夫妻雙方能夠就財產分割、子女撫養（雖然兒女已長大，但可能還涉及一些經濟支持等問題）等問題達成一致意見，那么可以選擇協議離婚。協議離婚需要夫妻雙方簽訂離婚協議書，然后到婚姻登記機關申請離婚登記。自婚姻登記機關收到離婚登記申請并向當事人發放《離婚登記申請受理回執單》之日起三十日內，任何一方不愿意離婚的，可以持本人有效身份證件和《離婚登記申請受理回執單》，向受理離婚登記申請的婚姻登記機關撤回離婚登記申請，并親自填寫《撤回離婚登記申請書》。經婚姻登記機關核實無誤后，發給《撤回離婚登記確認單》，并將《離婚協議書》《離婚登記申請書》《撤回離婚登記申請書（聯存聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯聯